50: The Second Circle of Life — My Alignment and Flow

When I turned 50, something shifted inside me. Not the quiet fear some expect when age milestones arrive, but a calm, expansive opening. Now at 51, I can say with confidence that my fifties have become the best years of my life. I have stepped fully into a new circle of existence — a season of feminine power, softness, flow, and alignment with my divine purpose.

The woman I was in my thirties and forties often ran on urgency. I was chasing, fixing, and proving. But this new circle? It is about being. It is about flow. It is about attracting the right energy instead of forcing my way into the wrong spaces.

The Power of Perfect Timing

A day before my birthday this year, I received news that I had been redeployed to another department in my workplace — a change I had requested three years ago but was denied. Back then, I would have felt frustrated, even resentful.

Now I see the beauty of divine timing. The opportunity came effortlessly, right when I was ready, in full alignment with my purpose. What I once tried to force, I now received without sweat. This is the magic of flow.

Reclaiming My Feminine Core

These years have been about a return — not backwards, but deeper into myself. I have reclaimed my feminine essence after years of leading with masculine drive and energy. I had been moving from a place of exhaustion, constantly in action mode, until my body and spirit demanded something else.

Through affirmation, meditation, worship, tea rituals, and listening to my body’s quiet whispers, I have learned to lead from softness.

Feminine leadership is not passive. It is magnetic. It is rooted in deep knowing, intuition, and trust in divine order. It is the ability to create impact without burning out.

The Blossoming of Better Blossom Coaching

Building Better Blossom Coaching Services has been one of the greatest fruits of this alignment. I began with a vision to help individuals — especially women — navigate transitions, heal emotionally, and step into their own power. That vision has grown into something tangible and transformative.

This year, I signed my first international client. That moment was not just a business milestone; it was proof that when you walk in purpose, opportunities find you across borders and time zones.

A New Phase for My Media Training Academy

As my coaching work deepens, I also feel the pull to nurture my long-standing passion for media. The next phase of my life includes building my Media Training Academy into a powerhouse of skills and empowerment.

My years in broadcasting, journalism, and digital media have prepared me to equip others with tools to not just work in media, but to lead and innovate within it.

The Power of Continuous Learning

Another joy in this season has been my love for learning. I recently completed a 7-month digital marketing course, and almost immediately, I landed a 6-month role as a social media manager.

This was more than professional growth — it was a reminder that learning keeps you relevant, open, and in motion no matter your age.

Living in Flow

Flow is not laziness. It is alignment between intention and action. In this flow, I am no longer chasing opportunities; I am preparing myself so that opportunities arrive ready to meet me.

I listen to my body. I follow my heart. I sit in stillness when needed. I move when prompted.

Flow requires trust. It asks you to release control over when and how things happen, without becoming complacent. It is the art of doing the right things at the right time with the right energy.

Rituals That Ground Me in This Second Circle

In this new circle of life, I have embraced daily practices that help me stay aligned:

Affirmations that anchor my mind in truth

Meditation to clear the noise and sharpen my inner voice

Menopause rituals that honor my changing body rather than resist it

Tea drinking as a moment of reflection and mindfulness

Worship as a constant reminder of divine presence

Intuitive listening — to my body, my emotions, my energy

These practices are not just habits. They are lifelines. They keep me in the space where clarity and opportunity meet.

Lessons from the Second Circle

1. Divine timing is always better than my own deadlines.

2. Feminine leadership is powerful and sustainable.

3. Opportunities multiply when you are in alignment.

4. Learning keeps your spirit young and your skills sharp.

5. Rituals ground your energy so you can move from clarity, not chaos.

I see the next years of my fifties as years of building with joy, mentoring with wisdom, and creating from abundance.

Five Affirmations for My Second Circle of Life

1. I am in perfect alignment with my divine purpose.

2. My feminine power flows effortlessly and attracts the right opportunities.

3. Every season of my life brings greater wisdom, beauty, and joy.

4. I honor my body and listen to its sacred guidance.

5. I trust the timing of my life completely.

Five Journal Prompts for Reflection

1. What am I attracting into my life now that I am in flow?

2. How can I honor my body more in this season?

3. What opportunities have arrived in perfect timing for me?

4. Which feminine qualities am I reclaiming and celebrating?

5. What does alignment feel like in my daily life?

My Mantra

All things work for my good. I am living the best years of my life.

If you are stepping into your own second circle — whether at 40, 50, or beyond — embrace it fully. Do the inner work. Find your flow. Trust your divine timing.

You are not late. You are not behind. You are right on time for your own life.