HE DIDN'T CHANGE, I DID

I DECIDED TO CHANGE MYSELF INSTEAD OF WAITING FOR HIM TO CHANGE 

A beautiful lady reached out to me and poured out her marital woes.
She was sick and tired.
The infidelity and total neglect was driving her crazy and she was the breadwinner.

So I recommended she join my Better Me Coach Group.
Within 3 months being exposed to....
Selflove
Affirmation
Mantras
Take back your power
Forgiveness therapy
Gratitude lifestyle
Self-care
She has completely transformed.
She is no longer unhappy.
She no longer cares about his infidelity.
No more fights.
She is at peace and bliss.
Doing what makes her happy.

I commended her recent glow and she said Nkechi, see those stuff you kept teaching shifted my Mindset. If he won't change , I will change.

She hugged me and I was almost teary because she got back her life back.
She isn't waiting for him to change - She has changed.
His actions no longer trigger her- she has changed.
His words no longer stings- she has changed.
Whether he changes or not - She has changed.

She recognized she had the power to have a good life and it's not at the perogetive of a husband who no longer cares.

When you understand your life is yours.
When you understand your life is your responsibility.


When you understand you are supposed to be on the driver seat of your life and take the wheels, that's taking back your power.

  1. 10 STEPS TO BECOMING A BETTER PERSON
  1. Practice empathy daily.
  1. Cultivate gratitude.
  1. Actively listen to others.
  1. Forgive and let go of grudges.
  1. Learn from your mistakes.
  1. Show kindness to everyone.
  1. Prioritize self-care.
  1. Set goals and work towards them.
  1. Educate yourself constantly.
  1. Spread positivity and love.

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