PERSONAL TRANSFORMATION WITH NKECHI

This morning, while reflecting on International Men’s Day, my mind drifted to a period on Facebook that felt like a long emotional storm. A few years ago, I observed a group of women who had unknowingly slipped into misandry. They posted daily about men. The tone was sharp. The bitterness was visible. You could sense the unresolved father wounds, the relationship wounds, and the pain that had settled into their identities. Their pages became gathering points for other wounded women. They shared horrifying stories about fathers who disappointed them, husbands who betrayed them, and partners who hurt them. The comment sections were filled with grief, rage, and trauma. The sad part was simple. Most of them were not ready for therapy. They were not ready for emotional healing. They preferred to bleed publicly. Misandry does not always look like hatred. Sometimes it looks like a woman who has been wounded for too long. Before we go deeper, it helps to ask yourself a few groundin...

Hey good people! What ever happened to discretion? Why do we feel the need to share everything—our opinions, pain, private lives, and even our bodies—with the world?  Why has mystery been mistaken for weakness, and silence for oppression? Discretion is not outdated. It’s not about shrinking—it’s about shining differently. It’s the quiet confidence of a woman who knows her worth and doesn’t need to perform or prove.  In a culture that celebrates loudness and exposure, discretion is the soft strength we need to bring back. " Discretion is the ability to know when to speak, when to be silent, and when to walk away with grace." – Amanda Ferguson What Is Discretion? Discretion is the ability to choose what to reveal and what to protect. It’s behaving and speaking with grace, not giving away all your treasures at once. It’s about sacred boundaries—knowing that not everything needs to be explained, posted, or publicized. In this age of oversharing , we often confuse open...